Be spreaders of the Word, not gossipers- Be prayers and not slayers. We should let our conversations be wholesome, and positive. Be a person of integrity. Even if we are in a tight place right now, and don’t know whether we”re going or coming-don’t speak negatively. Even if you’ve just made the worst mistake possible, really screwed up this time, let your speech be positive, that’s what grace is for, God blesses and loves us in spite of, He provides for our comfort in uncomfortable situations Psalms 23. We should delight ourselves in the Lord, making our relationship with God our first priority then our lives and everything around us will begin to fall in place and line up with the Word of God. There will be no desire for negative acts or negative people.
6 Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.
2 The tongue of the wise adorns knowledge,
but the mouth of the fool gushes folly.
3 The eyes of the Lord are everywhere,
keeping watch on the wicked and the good.
4 The soothing tongue is a tree of life,
but a perverse tongue crushes the spirit.